When you want to marry, choose a woman/man that understands what being "ONE" means.
I have seen a lot of men struggling day and night to keep their families going and unfortunately for such men, they're joined in holy matrimony to women who aren't appreciative. Instead of helping their husbands, they criticize their efforts and at the end bring nothing to the table themselves.
A situation where a woman stays at home from morning to night and all she does is wake up, bath, eat and sleep is practically termed "juju" except otherwise.
When a man allows all the home bills to his wife because she's more of a giver, she's more financially stable and he himself fails to go out to struggle for his family, it's pure negligence of duties and responsibilities.
That one is more than "juju".
Being hardworking doesn't mean killing yourself for your family but bringing something tangible to the table each time the need arises.
This applies to the man and woman as "One flesh".
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